What came first, the music or the misery? People worry about kids playing with guns, or watching violent videos, that some sort of culture of violence will take them over. Nobody worries about kids listening to thousands, literally thousands of songs about heartbreak, rejection, pain, misery and loss. Did I listen to music because I was miserable? Or was I miserable because I listened to music?

                                  
Death cab for cutie -                                       Silversun pickups - Lazy eye
I will follow you into the dark
                                                           


                                   
Damien rice- Cannonball                                   Smashing pumpkins-1979